Forced orgasm play

     I thought i'd post an article about performing forced orgasm play. First off, if you've never done this, and your partner has never tried this before please use the following advice as guide lines;

1.  At the beginning level of forced orgasm play refrain from using ball gags or any kind of mouth gag during the stimulation session so as to be able to clearly hear a safe word when it's used.
2. A safe word needs to be in place before any bondage is started on the subject, rehearsed and that everybody is on the same page.
3. When you and your partner have experimented successfully with forced orgasm play a few times, and have reached a intermediate level of play, a ball gag or other mouth gag can be used during the bondage setup and extra stimulation setup, then removed just prior to stimulation to begin the orgasms.
4. With successful sessions of intermediate play, and a good knowledge of your subjects responses, you can then move on to advanced play with various mouth gags (ball,bit,penis,inflatable,etc) so you can know from their responses if something is now right.
5. I would like to suggest that if your subject uses the "SAFE WORD" during play, discontinue all external stimulation (vibrator, vacuum pumping, penetrating machine, mouth gags, etc) immediately, but maintain bondage until they calm down so as to prevent accidental injury to themselves or yourself.

     Different type of bondage are usable, but under most circumstances legs spread and restrained and arms restrained. Hitachi vibrators are the best for external genital stimulation, other ideas for external stimulation to increase pleasure are as follows;

• anal toys (plugs, dilators, vibrators)
• nipple clamps
• nipple suction
• genital suction
• sensory deprivation headphones
• sensory deprivation blindfolds
• sensory deprivation gas mask (can work better than blindfolds)
• breast bondage

     It is always best to start off lite and work your way up to more advanced play. simple wrist to ankle bondage while lying on ones back, with a spreader bar attached to the ankles can yield excellent results during stimulation. gradually increasing stimulation with each session by adding; nipple pumping, genital pumping, anal toys.

     Some subs will crave increased stimulation, some subs have found that they passed out from stimulation before reaching a new level of orgasm, just always keep in mind, "SAFE SANE PLAY". The idea behind forced orgasm is to continue to stimulate after the orgasm occurs, and keep going until the sub uses their safe word that they cannot handle any more. The best way to achieve this is through orgasm teasing, stimulate your sub, and as the approach orgasm, tapper off the stimulation. Continue to do this repeatedly, gradually increase the level of stimulation before the cut off to work them up to it. Some couples play a game of making the sub agree to various sex acts before they'll be allowed to reach orgasm. Once they reach orgasm, continue stimulation until they use their safe word to end it, and remember once the safe word is used, discontinue all stimulation, remove nipple clamps, or suction, leave anal toys in place, and tell our sub "take slow easy breaths to calm down" once they have calmed down, then you can disconnect bondage devices to free them.